Wednesday, September 26, 2012

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!

Greetings My Friend!

This is an unusual story, one that caught my eye last weekend when I was watching the Clemson-Florida State college football game. There was talk about Daniel Rodriguez, a 24-year-old, that was a walk-on to the 2012 team at wide receiver but also the recipient of a “Purple Heart” and “Bronze Star” for bravery in combat during a year of battle he endured on foreign soil.
 
Rodriguez was once a high school football player dreaming of one day playing Division One ball. Back then, he admits to problems at school. He let his parents’ divorce while in school affect him. Then, his father died four days after Daniels graduated from school. He was looking for a way out and decided to enlist in the United States Army and served in Iraq for 15 months during the troop surge of 2007. On his second tour, he found himself in Afghanistan and in the line of fire during one of the war's bloodiest fights in October, 2009.

That day, more than 300 Taliban insurgents attacked his army base that housed 53 American soldiers. Roughly 300-plus yards or the distance of three football fields lay between Rodriguez and the machine gun he was supposed to man during such encounters. So Rodriguez ran as quickly as he could along an inclined dirt path while errant bullets kicked rocks at his ankles.

Rodriguez arrived back at his machine gun just as his best friend (Pfc. Kevin Thompson) was coming outside only to see him struck in the head by a bullet. He was dead before he hit the ground. Rodriguez spent the rest of the day defending himself against the Taliban insurgents while seven more of his fellow soldiers were killed. Though just 5-8/175 in stature, Daniel twice tried to drag Thompson (6-5 and close to 300 pounds) inside. Each time, he was struck by shrapnel from rocket-propelled grenades. The first time, it struck his right leg. The second time, it struck his neck. The metal shards were so hot that his wounds were instantly cauterized. Another soldier had to pull the shrapnel from Rodriguez's neck with pliers.

Prior to that battle, Rodriguez would tell Thompson of his dreams to pursue a missed chance at playing college football. Upon Thompson’s death, he made it an “oath” to complete the mission! He received an honorable discharge from the Army a year after the Afghan fight in 2010. He returned home to the U.S. listless, guilt-ridden and depressed.

In time, he found his therapy in training to return to the football field in the fall of 2011. As the intensity of his workouts increased, his appetite returned, as did his ability to sleep for solid durations. Subsequently, he re-engaged with friends and family. Clemson offered him a chance to live out his dreams and gave him three years of eligibility.

"I'm using the hardships, the horrors, the killing, the friends that I've lost as my fuel to (get) where I want to be," Daniel said. "So I think if you can turn and manipulate anything negative in your life and use it as something good, that's what I've taken into my life."

When Clemson opened the season. Rodriguez made his first college catch. It was a simple 4-yard reception against Ball State on Sept. 8th. A dream just came true for he and his friend! In so doing, the Clemson crowd gave Daniel one of the loudest ovations ever given to a player!

Summing up the difference between teammates on the athletic field to those in the military, Daniel said: "At war, in the military, you're training constantly, everybody collectively goes to a location, a base, so that bond is so much thicker because you're so secluded or taken or sucked away from what you know. And then when you deploy, that guy is all you've got. His bullet is going to save you!”

ALWAYS RESPECT THE GAME YOU PLAY FELLAS! THERE ARE LITERALLY THOUSANDS OF PROSPECTS OUT THERE DYING FOR THAT CHANCE TO TAKE YOUR SPOT ON THE DEPTH CHART! WORK SO HARD THAT YOUR UNIFORM NEVER COMES OFF!

All the best my friend and best regards!

Jim

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“Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world” – stated by Helen Keller, our country’s first deaf/blind person to earn a Bachelor of Arts degree

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“I can give you a six-word formula for success: ‘Think things through, then follow through’” – stated by Captain Edward V. Rickenbacker, American Fighter Pilot during World War I and later head of
Eastern Air Lines.

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“You’ve got to have the guts not to be afraid to screw up. The guys who Win are the ones who are not afraid to mess up. And that comes right from the heart” – stated by Fuzzy Zoeller, Masters Golf Champion

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WHY NOT YOU?

- Today, many will awaken with a fresh sense of inspiration. Why not you?

- Today, many will choose to leave the ghost of yesterday behind and seize the immeasurable power
of today. Why not you?

- Today, many will break through the barriers of the past by looking at the blessings of the present. Why not you?

- Today, many will rise above their believed limitations and make contact with their powerful innate strength. Why not you?

- Today, many will choose to free themselves from the personal imprisonment of their bad habits. Why not you?

- Today, many will decide to no longer sit back with a victim mentality, but to take charge of their lives and make positive changes. Why not you?

- Today, many will take the action necessary to make a difference. Why not you?

Author: Steve Maraboli

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Thursday, September 20, 2012

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!


Greetings My Friend!

Late last week, I was fortunate to be able to spend some time in Kansas City with one of my Facebook baseball players and watch him win one of the Royals’ farm system player-of-the-year awards. The big league organization did it up first class! Flew in the player’s families. Hosted them for 48 hours and kept the players busy with some community activities as well as an autograph session at the ballpark and an on-field ceremony viewed by some 40,000-plus fans.

During this two-day trip, each player spent considerable time meeting the General Manager, Assistant GM, the Farm System Director and Chief Scout. Even though this was a trip to reward on-field achievement, there’s no doubt that the Royals spent time sizing up each prospect and formulated an opinion that will stay with them forever.

Fellas – file this next paragraph away. If you’re in high school meeting Major League Baseball scouts for the first time; in college and meeting big league talent evaluators frequently; or in a MLB farm system today – FIRST IMPRESSION SELLS!! Never forget the human element and how much you can up your NET WORTH by a simple handshake? The way you SMILE? How you SPEAK? The CONFIDENCE in your Voice? It needs to say “I AM A BIG LEAGUER” at all times!

Your social skills are also put on display simply by how you represent YOU on Facebook and other networking sites. You are a BRAND IMAGE in this day and age just like a business whether you’re signed to a professional baseball organization or not. How you write, what you say, what photos you permit to be seen (and situations you’re seen in) on social media sites can UP your WORTH or have you FREE FALL like playing the game Chutes & Ladder. Yes -- MLB Organizations do view your social media sites and frequently! Trust Me!!

For the players not yet drafted and reading this … 50% of your Draft Value is determined in that FIRST HANDSHAKE and meeting with you and a MLB Scout. In his mindset that quickly, the Scout is thinking: “do I invest in this person or not?" So wipe off those sweaty hands. Make eye contact always. Dress appropriately. Smile. Be sincere. Be prepared.

If you want a Major League Baseball organization to turn the key to their "vault" for you so to speak, you’ve got to convince them that you are a BIG LEAGUE PERSON as much as a prospect on the field!

All the best my friend! Continued success!

Jim Loria

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CRITERIA NICK SABAN USES WHEN RECRUITING ALABAMA COLLEGE FOOTBALL PROSPECTS: Player’s Character, Attitude and Intelligence and then specific position related factors (height, weight, speed among others)

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"Confidence is only born out of one thing – demonstrated ability. It is not born of anything else. You cannot dream up confidence. You cannot fabricate it. You cannot wish it. You have to accompany it” – stated by Bill Parcells, Legendary NFL Coach and ESPN Commentator

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“The most important quality I look for in a player is accountability. You’ve got to be accountable for who you are” – stated by Lenny Wilkins, Hall of Fame NBA Basketball Coach

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“Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want” – stated by Jim Rohn, Author and Motivational Speaker

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Jim Loria
E-Mail address: loria@sfstampede.com

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE

Greetings My Friend!
This is a story about SALES. In everyday life … you and I are so much a like even though thousands of people someday will watch you perform your job and only one person typically will see mine.
No matter the number of eyeballs watching, we both have to bring the total package to work everyday. Why I hit on this topic, gang, is that the power of social media now has the ability to move the needle and sway sports franchises on how they conduct themselves and or choose whom they want to invest in.
Not to relate my job totally to a professional athlete but if my voice and mannerisms on the phone do not uplift the possible business partner I am trying to sell within seconds or if my appearance and ability to converse in person doesn’t connect with the individual sitting across the desk, I will have a hard time getting the client to invest in my product (which as you know is putting people in the seats to cheer you on!)
Same for you as one of today’s athletes. I was reading Sports Illustrated over the weekend which had a piece on the Boston Red Sox and their disastrous season. Some of the focus was put on All-Star Adrian Gonzalez, a high priced free agent just two years ago, and his quiet demeanor on the field and in the clubhouse. Was he a bad fit for the media-and-fan-crazed New England sports market? Same for Carl Crawford? 
One of my concerns, fellas, is that in this era of pro sports, where you can be invested into the hundreds of millions, you are selling yourself as a “brand” and that image of you can pay off like a lottery ticket someday! In this SI story, the writer actually indicates that the Boston ownership is now going to start looking at the personality mix of a player when they sign free agents. The article pointed out L.A. Angels’ pitcher Zack Greinke, for instance, that because of his introverted nature, he could possibly lose out in $$ opportunity from a major cash spending market team because of the fear this type of player might not be able to handle the intense media and fan attention which would affect his play on the field and the investment ownership put out. It’s a situation that the New York Yankees will watch closely I am sure when they pick and choose free agents to pursue in the future. There’s a saying that “it takes the right personality to play on the Big Stage in New York.”
In some of my writings to you in the past, I’ve stressed that you have to learn how to SMILE and translate that “boyhood enthusiasm for the game” to the everyday sports fan and the national media that will be watching you every step of the way. The likeability factor – as we head into a much more dominant social media world – is going to be the difference maker in who gets paid top dollar and who gets pushed back to a secondary role on the salary scale if your game cannot relate to the fans.
Every job in this world is about SELLING YOU! It happens when you are dating someone; selling your own coach; your parents; teacher, etc. Heck, I tuned into the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders Show to watch one of the girls tryout that I help mentor. They had 300-400 girls on hand competing for maybe 20-30 positions.  What got you past GO on the very first day of training camp was not necessarily your dancing skill or beauty; rather the squad’s director was simply looking at each person's SMILE! They were looking for the girl that had personality and then the ability to transform excitement, fun and enjoyment from their performance to the fan sitting in the stadium seats or to the fan at home watching on television.
Fellas – be aware that Major League Baseball teams are all going to be taking a much more serious approach to the human elements of the individual when they determine who will get top dollar and not. It won’t all be based on statistics such as batting average, strikeouts or home runs like in years past but factors like personality, enthusiasm and zest for the game will now start to weigh in when owners sign off on their investments.
MY BEST FOR YOU!

Jim Loria
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 Colorado Rockies club philosophy on signing top tier players: “Before signing a player to a long-term deal, we have to be satisfied not with just the player’s skills but also with the content of his character. We found that talent that isn’t also accompanied by other qualities, such as humility, accountability and integrity, really doesn’t work for us” – stated by Dan O’Dowd, General Manager
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“You are the person who has to decide. Whether you'll do it or toss it aside; You are the person who makes up your mind. Whether you'll lead or will linger behind. Whether you'll try for the goal that's afar. Or just be contented to stay where you are” – stated by Edgar A. Guest, early 1900s American Poet
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“If we are to better the future we must disturb the present” – stated by Catherine Booth, wife of the founder of The Salvation Army, 1800s
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"Will you look back on life and say, ‘I wish I had,’ or ‘I'm glad I did?’” stated by Zig Ziglar, American Author and Motivational Speaker
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“Always remember that the shell in you must break before the bird can fly” - stated by Alfred Tennyson, British Poet, 1800s

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Jim Loria
E-Mail: loria@sfstampede.com