Thursday, January 10, 2013

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!


Greetings!

Watching Monday’s (July 7th) college football championship game, I came away with so much admiration for Alabama All-American center Barrett Jones. He played in the BCS Championship game with torn ligaments in his left foot – injured during the Tide’s SEC title game vs. Georgia a few weeks back - and wore a protective boot against Notre Dame to help cushion the ankle and soften the pain tolerance.

Knowing this and watching the Alabama lineman rise up from his crouch position on every single offensive play was truly a testament to one’s will that it can do anything when the mindset officially buys into the mission ahead 100%!

Picture how many times Jones (who stands in at 6’-5”) had to plant his feet on his 300-pound (plus) body with that much weight and stress hammering down on both ankles – and then having to use every ounce of inner strength coming off his ankles to get the utmost leverage over-and-over for 40-50 plays while grappling like a wrestler with one-to-two bull rushing defensive linemen coming at him that must equate to 650 pounds of human football flesh and you’re doing this with TORN LIGAMENTS? Yet, Jones and his O-line teammates put forth one of the most dominating performances ever seen in a football game and helped their team cruise to the national championship.

When I looked into Jones’ background, I was equally stunned to find out about the sacrifices he made for his college team by switching positions not once but three different times and how he dominated every single change! He went from starting 14 games at right guard as a freshman. Moved over to the left tackle position as a junior only to be chosen the “best offensive lineman” in the country and a unanimous spot on the All-American team.

As a senior in 2012 – and this his NFL Draft year – how many players would risk it all by switching to another new and foreign position? Jones did! He accepted the request from his coaches to move over to the middle of the line and anchor the center position. Arguably the hardest position to master on the offensive line. Jones had to adapt and learn on the go as to how to call out the proper blocking signals for his O-line teammates. So what happens to Barrett Jones? He ends up being the most feared and dominant center in the nation and is chosen #1 at his position again and a spot on the All-American first team for the second time in two years!
All of these accomplishments from a player that dominated the classroom academically equally well! Despite the heavy demands of playing Division I football all four years, Jones has just about completed his Master’s after earning an undergraduate degree in accounting while never posting a grade lower than a 4.0!

Everyone knows the persona of Alabama coach Nick Saban, who shy’s away completely from offering superlative quotes about his players (so as to keep them on edge). Know that Saban has coached close to a thousand players during his 40-year career out on the football field but had this to say about Barrett Jones:

“He is one of those people that if I start thinking what five players did I ever coach that was as good a person as I’ve ever been around in terms of his actions, how he did things, the example he set, the quality of performance he had, personally, academically, athletically, whatever he chose to do, he would be one of the finest players I ever had the opportunity to coach. Just not very many people like him. He's special,” said Saban. “He has all the right stuff. If we were still trying to get to the moon, Barrett Jones would be my first nomination to be the astronaut to get us there.”

The great poet Edgar A. Guest authored the words below in a poem about courage that rings so true – for you and every athlete no matter the sport - as we close out the today’s story:
 
… Courage must come from the soul within,
… The man must furnish the will to win.
… So figure it out for yourself, my lad.
… You were born with all that the greats have had,
… With your equipment they all began,
… Get hold of yourself and say: “I can.


My best always!
Jim

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“Legends are forged when Dreamers shut down the critics and tune out their fears. Pioneers don’t choose the road less traveled, they create a path that’s entirely their own. Legends stand out because they stood up and took the first steps toward their Dreams, no matter what stood in their way” – taken from the December, GQ Magazine
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"Somehow I can't believe that there are any heights that can't be scaled by a man who knows the secrets of making dreams come true. This special secret, it seems to me, can be summarized in four C’s. They are Curiosity, Confidence, Courage, and Constancy, and the greatest of all is Confidence. When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionable" – stated by the legendary Walt Disney
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“The most important part of a player's body is above his shoulders” - stated by baseball legend Ty Cobb

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Jim Loria
E-Mail: loria@sfstampede.com

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!


Greetings!

He was class president of his high school at age 17. Graduated from his university in three years with an overall 3.67 GPA. He made the Dean’s List on three occasions. Seven times he earned a spot on the Big 12 Commissioner’s Academic Honor Roll! A finalist for the very prestigious NCAA Arthur Ashe Award in 2010. Chosen THE Sports Person of the Year in 2012 for his entire college conference. Currently studying for his Master’s Degree in Communications.

Oh, besides all of the above, he found time to build a winning tradition for his college football program that had lost for 13 straight seasons prior to his arrival. Led his school to their first Bowl Game victory since the year 1992 (he racked up 67 points in the win) and happened to capture the 2011 Heisman Trophy among his many accolades. Meet Robert Griffin III.


The Washington Redskins were so wrapped up into his charismatic personality and athletic skill set on the football field that they proceeded to shock all NFL teams and their fans everywhere by swapping out their first round pick (#6 to #2) and two more future number one’s and a second round selection to St. Louis for the rights to select RG3.  Put yourself into his mindset: You’re just 22-years-old. Now fresh out of college. Heading to the Nation’s Capital - the same city where our President, Senators, Congressmen, the country’s most influential deal makers and media scribes and bloggers reside! All eyes are on you! You’ve just been given the keys to a franchise worth $1,600,000,000 (or $1.6 Billion) according to Forbes Magazine. Their rabid fan base is starving for a winner after seeing the team finish dead last in the NFC East each of the last four seasons prior to this year.

No pressure right? Before the plaudits come in with how Griffin helped lead the Redskins to an exciting first place finish here in 2012 and a spot in the NFL Payoffs, perhaps RG3’s greatest individual achievement this year is not what we all witnessed on the field but I see it as how he retransformed the Redskins’ locker room just like he did at Baylor University. Many say he was simply a force of overwhelming belief from that very first day he walked into the team’s training camp last July.

“His expectation of winning and playing great is a huge influence in here,” said veteran tight end Chris Cooley. “It’s been a drastic change of culture, and you could say Robert has been the biggest part of that. He’s a natural leader. When he talks, people listen — and people believe. No one said, ‘Okay, you’re the quarterback, so we’re going to listen to what you say.’ You build that trust.
“It’s an unbelievably hard thing to do,” Cooley continued. “I don’t think he came in and in his mind said, ‘I have to make everyone believe in me.’ I think he came in and said, ‘I believe in myself, and I’m going to do what I do best.’ And the rest just falls into place.”
This is Griffin’s team now. The seeds were first planted – and evident to everyone – when the team was preparing to play their first pre-season game back on August 9th. RG3 got himself into the first row seat on the team bus before his teammates arrived so that he could reach up and “fist tap” every single player and coach as they boarded the vehicle.  It was Griffin that also gave a riveting locker room speech to the entire team when they came off the bye week in mid-November with a three-game losing streak and a 3-6 record.
Because of these moments, Griffin now wears a Captain’s “C” on his Redskins’ jersey, an extraordinary honor unheard of for an NFL rookie. “Everybody gets in line behind him and says, ‘Take us to the promised land,’ ” says wide receiver Santana Moss, himself a 12-year veteran. “I know it sounds funny saying that, but he shows what it takes every day to get to where he’s trying to get by how he prepares. It shows up on the field on Sundays. There’s no question you want this guy to be a captain.”
“I think I earned their belief after the first preseason game, and I think I got their trust after the first regular season game,” Griffin said. “Because your work and your work ethic can only speak so much, but once you go out and do it in a game and you perform in the clutch, that’s when you can really earn guys’ trust.”
What sets Griffin apart from most everyone else? He has the charisma and showmanship of a Michael Jordan, combined with the self-confidence and leadership skills to run a Fortune 500 Corporation and then add in the feel goodness of a quality human being that genuinely cares about people … he is an attraction magnet!   
SO THAT YOU KNOW, ROBERT GRIFFIN III IS PROOF THAT GREAT THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE DESPITE YOUR DRAFT ROUND OR POSITION ON THE TEAM. BACK IN 2008 AS A SENIOR IN HIGH SCHOOL, SCOUTS HAD RG3 RANKED AS THE 42ND BEST PROSPECT - JUST IN THE STATE OF TEXAS ALONE! TODAY, HE’S AT THE HEAD OF HIS CLASS JUST LIKE HE PROVED ACADEMICALLY YEARS AGO!  
All the best my friend!
Jim
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“Somehow I can't believe that there are any heights that can't be scaled by a man who knows the secrets of making dreams come true. This special secret, it seems to me, can be summarized in four C’s. They are Curiosity, Confidence, Courage, and Constancy, and the greatest of all is Confidence. When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionable" – stated by the legendary Walt Disney
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“What happened yesterday is history. What happens tomorrow is a mystery. What we do today makes a difference” – stated by Nick Saban, University of Alabama Head Football Coach
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“No person was ever honored for what he received. Honor has been the reward for what he gave” – stated by Calvin Coolidge, our 30th President of the United States (1923–1929)
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Jim Loria
E-Mail: loria@sfstampede.com

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!

Greetings!

This story is about an athlete that learned some hard lessons in year’s past and made such an about face change in himself and his game that he might be chosen his league’s MVP this year and crowned NBA Champion?

He is Carmelo Anthony of the NBA New York Knicks. Always his team’s top scorer in the pros whether it was for his past team in Denver or with New York. After seven years with the Nuggets, he forced his way out of Colorado midway into the 2010-11 season to play in the ‘Big Apple’ and was lashed out by the national media for his selfishness. Since his arrival, the Knicks went from a solid team to a dysfunctional outfit. The brunt of the media and fan backlash was targeted at Anthony because of his need to always have the ball. His style did not play out well in their coach’s system (who was fired) nor with the arrival of Jeremy Lin (who became an overnight global sensation) and seemingly stole the spotlight from Anthony. He found out that playing on the world’s “Biggest Stage” in New York (or anywhere for that matter) doesn’t mean anything unless you have TEAM SUCCESS. His personal and commercial appeal plummeted. No endorsements coming in. He was even shunned by the fans even though he is a local player that grew up in New York.

Anthony knew he needed to change his game and become a better teammate.  Where he absorbed these lessons came at the 2012 London Olympic Games as a member of Team USA. There he was surrounded by teammates like LeBron James, Kobe Bryant, Kevin Durant, Chris Paul, etc. He knew he would not be the primary. Not the scorer. There he would share minutes. Even more importantly, he’d have to learn to play team first ball and focus his attention on defense and blocking out the opposing players to help his teammates be put in better position on the court.

After helping lead Team USA to the Gold Medal Championship and coming back home to American soil, there was a significant change in Anthony, both the person, the teammate, and in his game. He seems to now focus on MAKING EVERYONE AROUND HIM A BETTER PLAYER. The results: The Knicks are second to Miami in the Eastern Conference standings in the early going (20-8 W-L record). He still is among the NBA’s top scorers (2nd only to Kobe Bryant at nearly 30 points per game) but Anthony’s Knicks are now among the top echelon in overall team defense – a stat unheard of in recent years.

What were the lessons Carmelo Anthony learned from his time spent at the Olympic Games?

Winning Is the Only Thing That Matters

Carmelo knows that for him to pick up the accolades and respect of his colleagues in the NBA, he must get the Knicks to become playoff contenders and win a Championship. Winning must come first before personal glory as he found out at the Olympics. He is now doing the little things necessary to win and his teammates are noticing!

Respect the Coach

In all sports, the “star players” or the key returning veterans must CONNECT with their COACH and be on the same page Trust is another word. There doesn’t have to be “love and admiration” for the coach but in order for the team to have a chance to succeed, there must be RESPECT for the people in charge!

Trust and Empower Teammates

The only way the Knicks can ever win an NBA Championship is if all the pieces to the puzzle perform well as a team. Anthony is showing this year that he finally trusts his teammates. He can make the team better just by his actions of becoming a committed teammate!

This year, Anthony has garnered more praise from media and fans for the way he has become a team player and for showing more maturity both on and off the court. The past couple of seasons, the words TEAM PLAYER and Anthony just never seemed to go together. In addition to the experiences at the Olympics, many say the changes in Anthony also resulted because of the intense New York media criticism of him personally and then watching LeBron James change his game and evolve as a Miami Heat teammate, eventually winning his first Ring as the deciding factors.

ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS FELLAS – A GREAT QUOTE FROM PHIL JACKSON, THE LEGENDARY NBA HALL OF FAME COACH WITH CHICAGO AND LOS ANGELES – “The strength of the team is each individual member; the strength of each member is the team”

Wishing you a very Happy New Year! May 2013 be a year of great health for you. A year that brings you on-field success, many memories to cherish and inches you closer than ever to reaching your Dreams!

Jim Loria
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Here’s an example of LEADERSHIP from Seattle Seahawks rookie QB Russell Wilson … After the Seahawks defeated San Francisco last Sunday, he went to his teammates in the locker room and said: "We got work to do tomorrow boys. Come in and get your lift in.'' Even though it would be Christmas Eve day, he set up a workout schedule for his teammates to do Video Tape analysis at 8 AM and Lift at 10 AM. That's what leaders do.
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“Natural talent only determines the limits of your athletic potential. It’s dedication and a willingness to discipline your life that makes you great” – stated by Billie Jean King, Tennis Legend and Hall of Fame member

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“Today I will do what others won't, so tomorrow I can accomplish what others can't” – stated by Jerry Rice, NFL Hall of Famer and all-time leading wide receiver

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“The power of WE is stronger than the power of ME” – by Author Unknown

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“Don't talk about it, be about it” – stated by Jim Rohn, Self Help Author and Motivational Speaker


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Jim Loria
E-Mail: loria@sfstampede.com

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!


Greetings!

“To be a success in the world of sales, a person must be knowledgeable about their product, their industry, their competition and their marketplace. To make the sale, you have to first build an emotional connection and trust with the customer. You must be prepared. Be genuine because likeability matters.  Put your best foot forward. You never get a second chance to make a good first impression” – Jim Loria
 

This is all so true whether this speaks of my own daily job, whether a professional scout or college recruiter is sizing you up and or you are in  negotiations with a Big League sports organization trying to capitalize on your recent accomplishments on the field. In this day and age, talent is necessary but if a club is going to walk up the aisle with you and put a ring on your finger for the next 3-5-7 years, they are now seeking more reasons to sign off on you as an investment.
 

For the last month, I was following very closely the Zack Greinke free agent negotiations. Back on Dec. 11th,  he signed the richest contract in MLB history for a pitcher that can throw a baseball from the right hand side (6 years, $147-million).  The organization that made this enormous investment: the Los Angeles Dodgers.


Why? That is the purpose of this week’s story. It all started with what was expected to be a casual meeting between the player, his representatives and the club’s management & baseball operations team. A typical feel out meeting and to exchange pleasantries was what the Dodgers figured. So much so that the club actually scheduled this gathering for just an hour.

So in comes Zack Greinke, who at age 29, is still in the prime of his athletic career. He arrived at Dodgers Stadium with his wife, Emily, but did not bring her into the meeting.  He also did not bring anyone else for that matter…. Not a friend. No agent. No entourage. No lawyer. Just himself. He sat across from the Dodgers’ general manager Ned Colletti, their team president Stan Kasten and field manager Don Mattingly.  This maneuver by Greinke STUNNED the Dodgers’ brass! 


"We've all been doing this for a long, long time," Colletti said. "I don't know how many free agents I've talked to that have come to visit or we went to visit. I can't remember one that didn't bring an agent with them, or friends and a representative with them, so if the questioning got a little tough they'd have a fallback for him.

"To have the candor like Zack did and to have somebody who had enough confidence in himself to stand on his own - it was impressive,” continued Colletti. “There's so much more than pitching this kid is about and he was able to express it and express it without a filter or a crutch to hold him up.”

 
What also blew the Dodgers away from this first meeting with Greinke – which eventually lasted three hours – was that they found Greinke to be so highly analytical and completely refreshing. He described in detail how he would approach their hitters. He discussed the players in their farm system and compared their strengths. He even talked about basketball and the Orlando Magic (his favorite team) – which impressed Kasten, a former long-time NBA executive with the Atlanta Hawks.

After this lengthy first meeting came to an end, Colletti recalls: "When Zack left that day, we all said: 'We've got to figure out a way to get this kid here.' Because he's sharp, because he's about so much more than just the pitching. It was just pure."  Added  Kasten: "From my notes, I wrote back a memo to Dodgers’ chairman Mark Walter after the meeting with my two-word conclusion: `Beyond Impressive.'"

Fellas, as we’ve stated many times in previous stories, it is your “humanizing skills” that are going to separate you from the pack when it comes to contract negotiations, being drafted or recruited. Learn how to speak professionally, smile, properly sit (in an office meeting or at dinner), dress (wearing clothes that are crispy and wrinkle free), handshake (firmly and like you are in control of the meeting at hand) and maintain a Big League image of You on your social networking sites. Combine those elements with an ability to show off your “boyhood enthusiasm for the game” and there’s no doubt that any organization will want to INVEST in YOU and do so significantly!

All the best & Happy Holidays next week! Enjoy this special time of year with your family and THANK YOU for allowing me into your everyday world!

Jim Loria

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“The secret to changing your life is in your intentions. Wishing, hoping and goal setting cannot accomplish change without intention. What is needed is a shift from the inert energy of wanting to the active energy of doing and intention” – stated by Wayne Dyer, Self Help Author and Motivational Speaker


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Every day when Houston Texans all-everything defensive lineman J.J. Watt would walk out his front door at home to go to elementary school, his father John Watt would always say: “Act like Somebody today!” Said J.J.: “As I got older I knew what my Dad meant - he didn’t want us to float through life. He wanted us to make a difference and have an impact. To be like no one else.”

When he left home to play college football, Watt’s parents used to always remind him of the importance of first impressions: “Every day up there, every practice, every workout has to be your Super Bowl,” they would say.


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 “Some opportunities only come once. Seize them. Go out and start creating. Live your Dream and Wear your Passion” – stated by an Unknown Author

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“I never wanted to be one of those people, who looks back and says, ‘I wonder if?’  If I have a goal, I’ll go out and set forth to achieve it. When something is your passion, it becomes everything. You put everything into it without hesitation. No questions. No doubts. Nothing to stop you” – stated by Kim Fitchen, Cross Country Runner and member of three U.S. World Cup Relay Teams 

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Houston Texans’ Rookie DE  Whitney Mercilus speaking on his experience preparing for the NFL Combine last year when he was playing with the U/Illinois: “I spent a lot of time working on my interview skills with the help of my agent. I learned how to communicate effectively with coaches during the combine. They had me in media training so I could learn to create a brand and sell myself as a football player.”

 
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Jim Loria
E-Mail: loria@sfstampede.com

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!

“OPPORTUNITY TAKES JUST ONE CHANCE TO MAKE A LIFE. ONE WRONG CHOICE TO RUIN IT!” – Jim Loria

“It is our choices ... that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities” – stated by J.K. Rowling, British Novelist and author of the Harry Potter fantasy series

Greetings!

For the second w
eek in a row, the sporting world was stunned by the news of another professional athlete taking the life of a human being while erasing (possibly) his own career in the blink of an eye.

Let’s look at the Dallas Cowboys’ football player – Josh Brent – who was charged with “intoxication manslaughter” in the aftermath of last Saturday’s devastating car accident that killed his teammate Jerry Brown. This life-changing incident took place just hours before Brent’s teammates were going to board a plane and fly out to Cincinnati to play the Bengals in a must-win game that had playoff implications on the line for the Cowboys’ franchise. 

Here was a player taken in the 7th round of the 2010 NFL Draft. When he arrived in Dallas, Brent was not even allowed to drive a car because of a past DUI charge that occurred while in college (he served 60 days in jail). He played sparingly in his first three seasons for the Cowboys and just this year finally worked his way into the starting lineup due to injuries suffered on the defensive front line … finally reaching a childhood dream … only to now possibly throw away his entire career down the drain.

After a night out at a club, all Brent had to do was call the number from the ‘Safe Rides Solution’ program organized by the NFLPA that provides each player and team with a courtesy ride home when needed. Now his athletic career and freedom have been put into the hands of a judge that could sentence Brent up to 20 years in prison for the charges stated above.

Another incident I want to touch on, took place 26 years ago. During my lifetime, this may have been arguably the greatest tragedy in American sports history, when Len Bias passed away less than 40 hours after being selected No. 2 overall in the 1986 NBA Draft by the Boston Celtics. This player was so dominant of a college basketball player that he drew comparisons to Michael Jordan.

At Maryland, he was twice the ACC Player-of-the-Year.  He was a true All-American – both as a person and in game action. Considered a neighborhood hero to so many kids. After flying to Boston hours after his  draft selection to meet the Celtics’ brass and media, Bias would return to Maryland at night to celebrate his newfound career with friends and then later with an unidentified group of people  at an off-campus gathering near the university. Within hours of this party, Bias died of cocaine intoxication.

The sports world is no different than society in which we all live and share our own hopes and dreams. It doesn’t play favorites with people that choose to do knucklehead things. For the athlete? Why does someone, who has put in so much blood, sweat and tears to accomplish their dream to  play in pro sports, somehow then decides it time to roll the dice and let their guard down. It only takes one mistake, small or large, to either stain a career and the person’s earning capacity or to end it all in a blink of an eye.

Every day, you get the opportunity to walk out on the field and make a new memory for thousands of faithful followers. To become that next hero. To live a charmed life because of your athletic skill. To bring a home a monthly paycheck that the largest body of the American population could never earn in a lifetime! Fellas, don’t be that next tragedy. Please do not ever screw up your opportunity!

MY BEST ALWAYS!

Jim Loria

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 “If a man has a talent and cannot use it, he has failed. If he has a talent and uses only half of it, he has partly failed. If he has a talent and learns somehow to use the whole of it, he has gloriously succeeded, and won a satisfaction and a triumph few men ever know” – stated by Thomas Wolfe, best-selling American author and journalist

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“To the question of your life - you are the Answer; and to the problems of your life - you are the Solution”  - authored by Joe Cordare, Author

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You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change" - Jim Rohn, Author and Motivational Speaker

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“A difficult time can be more readily endured if we retain the conviction that our existence holds a purpose – a cause to pursue, a person to love, a goal to achieve” – stated by John Maxwell, Leadership Trainer

 
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Jim Loria
E-Mail: loria@sfstampede.com

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!

Greetings!

I had another subject matter in my mind that was going to be my theme of this week but last Saturday’s senseless acts in which an NFL player murdered his girlfriend (the mother of his 3-month old child) and then committed suicide right before the eyes of his coaches and general manager on the grounds outside of his field of employment … made me switch gears.

I know this is a heady subject matter. I know in this ever-changing universe where we are all continually bombarded with social media messages, national headlines, blogger commentaries and just everyday pressure to perform – both athletically in your world and on the job in mine – that we’re losing sight of reality and what’s most important - family, friends and your own personal well being. 

Through the aftermath of that personal tragedy, Brady Quinn, the quarterback of today for the Kansas City Chiefs, actually made the most sense and moved the needle with his post-game comments. He said: "We live in a society of social networks, with Twitter pages and Facebook, and that’s fine, but we have contact with our work associates, our family, our friends, and it seems like half the time we are more preoccupied with our phone and other things going on instead of the actual relationships that we have right in front of us. Hopefully, people can learn from this and try to actually help if someone is battling something deeper on the inside than what they are revealing on a day-to-day basis."

Quinn's message was applauded by people in all walks of life. Sherry Turkle, a psychologist and sociologist at MIT, had this to say: ”The technology that enables us to craft and share our identities is also undermining our ability to really know one another and ourselves. From social networks to sociable robots, we're designing technologies that will give us the illusion of companionship without the demands of friendship.  What I'm seeing is that people get so used to being short-changed out of real conversation, so used to getting by with less, that they've become almost willing to dispense with people altogether."

Fellas – as you continually develop your career, the inward pressure you feel will mount each year as you inch closer and closer to reaching your dreams to play in the Major Leagues. We all feel those same anxieties, even for us in our normal working world. Yet, no matter an individual’s chosen career path, we all share the same human traits – that is we are fueled by recognition and rewards. No matter what income or fame that is achieved, we all need a support system in our lives that needs to be in place in order to succeed. A real-life cheerleader! During the journey that awaits you my friend, please PROMISE ME that you will never DRIVE YOUR CAR in the game of life without a passenger to help you with encouragement, guidance and support! That can be family, teammates, coaches or friends from your own walk of life. 

Cheering for you every step of the way!

MY BEST!


Jim Loria


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21 SUGGESTIONS FOR SUCCESS!

Here is my magic formula to help you achieve true happiness in your everyday life!

1. When the time is right, Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery rather than what you do on the field.
2. Find a diversion outside of baseball that you enjoy and is worthy of your time and talent.
3. Give your teammates more than they expect.
4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5. Be forgiving of yourself, teammates and others.
6. Be generous with your time; become a community leader and make a difference with those less fortunate.
7. Have a grateful heart.
8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9. Discipline yourself to save money and invest wisely.
10 Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
12. Commit yourself to quality in all aspects of your life.
13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or  prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
14. Be loyal.
15. Be honest.
16. Be a self-starter.
17. Be decisive even if it means you'll sometimes be wrong.
18. Do not blame others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the ones you did.
20. Take good care of those that brought you to the position you enjoy today.
21. Don't do anything that wouldn't make your Mom proud.

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By: Jim Loria
E-Mail: loria@sfstampede.com

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!

Greetings!

This week’s piece has two separate meanings. One, sports and life will always be about opportunity. How you face up to your situation tells the story. Some will prosper like, for example, Colin Kaepernick of the San Francisco 49ers, who, just a few weeks ago was called upon to fill in for the injured starter Alex Smith and performed brilliantly. Now there are debates whether he is the better player to lead the NFL club. Perhaps the most legendary sports story about opportunity occurred in the year 1925 when Wally Pipp of the New York Yankees excused himself from the lineup due to a headache and a young rookie by the name of Lou Gehrig was given the nod to play 1st base … Gehrig never left the lineup thereafter and became one of the game’s greatest icons!

On the flip side to opportunity, each of you is born with a tremendous gift. A calling, if I may say, to play a game and to make a nice living as a result. Never take your skill and gift for granted or fail to truly maximize your potential. Over the Thanksgiving holiday break, I was watching ESPN’s ‘The Sporting Life’ and saw the story on Jacob Rainey, a high school football player from Virginia.  A gifted quarterback with definite pro potential. He was already being recruited by many major colleges. At 6-3, 215 pounds and timed at 4.61 seconds in the 40-yard dash, Rainey was equally feared as a runner and passer who could throw bullets down the field and had scouts everywhere drooling in anticipation of his future development.

During his junior school season in 2011, he suffered a knee injury during practice that changed his life forever and without warning. Doctors soon discovered that Rainey had severed the main artery in his leg and developed a rare condition called compartment syndrome. This condition cut off the blood flow to part of his leg which led to the death of muscle tissue and nerves. It was this condition that left “amputation” of part of his leg as the only option left for this athlete to survive.

Facing the daunting task that his dream to play professional football is now over? Rainey refused to spend time thinking about what he has lost. Instead, he inspired his school and community by attempting to return to the playing field for his senior season. Where most amputees would be learning to walk comfortably and slowly gaining trust in their new prosthetic -- Rainey has been working with a strength coach, running sprints by June of 2012, and fighting his way back to a football field. That was his goal … to return to his high school team for his senior year and play quarterback.  He actually reached his goal and was on the field to throw one pass for five yards during his school’s season opener last Sept. 7th.  For the entire season, he completed 7 of 9 passes –two for touchdowns and 75 overall yards.

Rainey’s comeback was viewed as logic-defying, heartwarming and mind-blowing by all observers and medical experts.  Despite his athletic dreams to ultimately play at the professional level were shattered, his courage, strength of mind and engaging personality, will more than likely take him so much further in life and be an inspiration to millions of those debilitated by injuries. . "He's the same but he's not the same. He lost a leg but he didn't lose the heart, or the arm, or the athleticism," said Jeff Johnson, Rainey’s high school football team trainer.

Fellas – value the opportunity bestowed upon you to play this great game of baseball! Continue to work hard so that the uniform never comes off!

MY BEST FOR YOU ALWAYS!


Jim Loria

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SAN FRANCISCO GIANTS NL MVP BUSTER POSEY COMMENTING ON WHAT HIS DEVASTATING LEG INJURY IN 2011 DID FOR HIS LOVE OF THE GAME? “It increased it, no doubt about it. I’ve always loved baseball. After my injury I saw how quickly this game can be gone. Hopefully that thought can be something I carry with me the rest of my career. I just have a better understanding of how privileged I am to play the game”. 

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“People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are.  I don't believe in circumstances.  The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them, make them” – stated by G.B. Shaw, Irish Playwright, 1893

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LYRICS FROM THE ARTIST “PINK” AND HER SONG “TRY”

… Where there is desire
… There is gonna be a flame
… Where there is a flame
… Someone's bound to get burned
… But just because it burns
… Doesn't mean you're gonna die
… You've gotta get up and try try try

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"So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable" - stated by an unknown author
 
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 “Most people have no idea of the giant capacity we can immediately command when we focus all of our resources on mastering a single area of our lives” – stated by Anthony Robbins, American self-help motivational speaker

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Jim Loria, Career Planning Expert for Sports Professionals Email address: loria@sfstampede.com

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

WEEKLY MOTIVATIONAL PIECE!

Greetings!

With this the week to celebrate not only Thanksgiving, but also it is a time to give “thanks” to your Mom & Dad, your past coaches and those that have taken your hand and helped guide you through these early stages of life and let them all know how much you appreciate their love and support!

None of us are invincible! You – and I – will continually need a support system around us the rest of our lives! Value the gifts you have been blessed with and for the opportunity that awaits you in the near future!

Next, I want to share a very special quote on baseball’s next generation of stars – Bryce Harper and Mike Trout. If you recall, I wrote you a few weeks back that Major League Baseball is now tapping their younger prospects at a much earlier age than ever before and giving (you) them a chance to play regularly! Work so hard this off-season to be ready for next year’s challenge and the doors that can be opening up for you!

“The best part about Harper and Trout -- and we've seen signs from (Jurickson) Profar and (Manny) Machado in their short time in the Major Leagues -- is the way they play baseball. They represent the game well by making all-out hustle COOL, which has made older players accountable for not running hard or giving away at-bats. The former too-cool-for-school body language around baseball has been replaced by Harper and Trout running out bouncers back to the mound as if their pants were on fire. Those guys just have fun and play. Trout has never not run a ball out -- ever. He's four seconds flat to first base or lower every time" – stated by a MLB Scout.

Said Eddie Bane, now a Boston Red Sox Special Assistant to Player Personnel (who was with the Angels last summer) "It would be great if Harper, Profar and Trout set the tone for how the game is played."

MORE THAN ANYTHING, FELLAS, SHOW THE WORLD THAT YOU ENJOY PLAYING THE GAME! BE THAT SPARK FOR YOUR TEAMMATES!

“BE THE ENERGY GIVER … NOT THE ENERGY TAKER ON YOUR CLUB!” (Those words come from Urban Meyer, Head Football Coach at Ohio State!)

Happy Thanksgiving Holiday Wishes for you and family!  Big CHEER enclosed for you!

Jim Loria

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“The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift is yours – it is an amazing journey – and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins” - stated by Bob Moawad 

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“To the question of your life - you are the Answer; and to the problems of your life - you are the Solution”  - authored by Joe Cordare

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“When nobody believes in you, believe in yourself. When nobody acknowledges your value, value yourself.  Instead of awaiting validation from others, listen to your Inner Guidance. Stand tall, oozing enough self-confidence to push yourself through seemingly insurmountable obstacles” – stated by Nea Justice

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 “The 3 C’s of Life --  Choices, Chances, Changes. You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change” – stated by Unknown Author

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“Four short words sum up what has lifted most successful individuals above the crowd: a little bit more. They did all that was expected of them and a little bit more” – stated by  A. Lou Vickery

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“Whoever you may be, Whatever life leads you, You are always a Mom’s Child, a Dad’s Dream, a Family’s Future and Someone’s Life. Be the Best of It” – stated by an Unknown Author
 

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Jim Loria
E-Mail: loria@sfstampede.com